Happy despite the Living Alone

I'M single and very happy. The statement was not only pronounced the teen singles. Those who remained single until the ripe old age is also not taboo to feel it. According to psychologist Setyaningsih SPSI MSI, many elderly people live without feeling the rope wedding. That could happen as a life choice or a variety of conditions. "In fact, they are still happy," he said. They can enjoy a choice of his life and through all the consequences that come with open hearts. In addition, they can survive in the midst of solitude as it can find ways to live independently and rely on yourself. "With their own lives, they already know what to do to meet his personal needs," said Setyaningsih. They are also actively looking for ways to follow a variety of activities to keep them happy. The goal, to survive in the midst of solitude and not mired in loneliness. "Having received such conditions, they will find ways to keep them happy," said psychology professor the University Trunojoyo. In addition, parents who live alone can still be happy because they have relationships or good social interaction. As such, they are able to develop positive things owned. For example, a guest speaker in the discussion of the material being in. By association, they are also capable of transmitting knowledge to others. "There are several factors that make a person chooses to live alone," he said. These factors, among others, self-perception or view of the values ​​in the embrace. For example a person choose their own and do not want to get married because they do not want to get in trouble in the relationship. There also are choosing to live alone because of past trauma. For example, hurt or betrayed lover left. "Essentially, people who live alone can still be happy." he said. They had prepared everything properly. Included in the face of old age, ie, whether to ask someone else to deal with or choose to live in nursing homes to make friends.